about us - 'The Ocean'

Tantra for the modern world - our vision is to make the conscious touch and the traditional tantric wisdom accessible to the modern world.

 
 
 

WHY THE OCEAN?

Because water reminds us of our true nature. It reminds us that we are emotional, intuitive, sensual beings and it invites us to bring attention where we have frozen, buried, detached from or held back the flow of our feelings. 

It invites us to notice where we withdrew from life itself. Water invites us to open up to our life experiences and sensual flow

“There is actually nothing that needs to be done. Just be."

OUR TANTRIC SESSIONS

Our tantric sessions are a combination of therapeutic massage, deep sensual massage and touch, energy and chakra work, tantric techniques like Kundalini rocking, toning, and chakra breathing. We involve all of your senses, working with your erotic energy - physical, emotional and spiritual bodies. 

The purpose of our sessions is to open up all the pathways, joints, energy centers so the blood and energy start to flow freely again. This allows you to connect to your body and your sensuality.

During the session, some people might experience the awakening of the sensuous energy running up their spine and filling the entire body. This is what we call a full body orgasm and can leave you feeling tingling, energetic and euphoric for hours, days and even weeks.

The sacred temple

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The union of two. The meeting of beings. When we become aware of being touched, we are instantly drawn into here and now. If the touch is captivating, it has the power to empty our mind of thoughts transporting us to the blissful state known as no-mind.

The tantric touch has the potential to lead us into a state of meditation. However, it is worth adding that not all touch has such an ecstatic and blissful effect. In fact, some touch can even be traumatic and harmful. So what is it that make a touch the “tantric touch of God”?

In tantra, the body is seen as a sacred temple of the spirit. Playing with the sensuality and with the erotic energy leads us to experiencing expanded states of consciousness.

In Tantra, the touch can be an incredible form of meditation. The touch is a magical “tool” that is usually not given enough attention. To touch another is the point at which the inner and outer worlds meet.

What is tantric massage ?

If your energy is disrupted or blocked you are less resilient, you feel stressed, your relationships might suffer and even your finances might deteriorate. Over time, this leads to bad health; you can experience emotional and psychological problems, low libido, physical pain and loss of fulfillment and joy. By unlocking the sensual and vital energy you can access all levels of the body, achieving a more holistic healing with long lasting benefits. You will learn to be more connected to your body and your breath in a deep relaxed state, rejuvenate your body, release trauma, relieve physical tension and create more orgasmic awareness.

Just like tantra, there are many misunderstandings regarding the “tantra massage”. Many people think of it as a massage with a “happy ending”, or sexual release. There are many practitioners calling their massage “tantra massage” and offering “happy endings” so it is not surprising for this wide-spread belief!!

However, tantra massage has a much deeper and more profound role. A massage given only for sexual pleasure should rather be called an “erotic massage”. The ancient tantric texts from Vigyan Bhairav Tantra include the meditation of touch as a method of awakening.

Tantra is the union of opposites, the meeting of yin and yang

On a physical and energetic level, tantric massage is a sensual full body massage which is known to support the body’s restorative ability to function at its optimal level by nourishing the blood flow, circulation and life force energy.

Integrating the genitals with the rest of the body helps to unify the sensuality energy with all other life force energy flowing through us. Even if you don’t have an orgasmic experience during the tantric massage, you will nonetheless find that it makes a difference to the way you feel afterwords and how the energy flows inside you. Genital massage or lingam (penis) and yoni (vagina) massage can help with acknowledging and releasing of past sexual traumas.

The tantric therapist won’t “heal” you but will support your healing journey

Not only the meeting, also the divine union that takes us beyond the apparent separation. One way in which tantra massage differs from a normal massage is that both yin-feminine and yang-masculine energies within ourselves are included.

A standard massage focuses only on the yin energy- that of relaxation. A tantra massage includes both yin relaxing energies and yang stimulating energies. A tantric massage alternates between relaxation and stimulation. This meeting of polarities will bring joy and a deep sense of peace and completeness.

During a tantra massage, some people can experience full body orgasms without being sexually stimulated and without taking their clothes off - though the orgasm is not a goal in tantra massage. However, it’s better to unify the sensual organs with the rest of the body. People tend to treat their sensuous organs as separate, cutting them off energetically from the rest of the body.

An important part of the healing benefits of tantra massage is to let yourself be or surrender in this safe space. “Safe” means to understand and accept the boundaries, where the therapist is a therapist and not a lover. The therapist will simply hold clear space for you, observing in a non-judgmental way the flow of sensual energy. This creates the opportunity for you to surrender and to access your most vulnerable parts.