FAQs

frequently asked questions

 

General questions

How to know if I’m ready to come for a tantric massage?

If you are in doubt whether a tantric massage would be the right thing for you, please call us and we will be happy to answer all your questions.
Perhaps your mind will create these thoughts, tricking you into believing that there is something you need to “be” or to “do” before you come for a massage, which will create doubts and anxiety.
The truth is that your body is ready even when your mind isn’t, as our true nature is longing for loving touch, presence and connection and tantra is always starting from the level you are right now.

How long time in advance do I need to make a reservation for a tantric massage?

As we don’t work with drop in’s, it’s not possible to just show up, you will need to book a time in advance - please contact us at (+47) 48426983 or send an e-mail at info@tantraocean.no
Normally, it’s best to book at least 24-48 h in advance.
However, for couple massages you might need to book a week in advance.
Sometimes you can be lucky to be offered a short notice appointment, the same day or within a few hours, but we cannot guarantee that we will be able to accommodate you.

How many times do I need to come for a tantric massage?

A tantric massage is a unique and individual experience of deepening into your pleasure potential, therefore there is no recipe. You may come as often or as rarely as you like.

In the beginning, we recommend a session every 2nd week, but this might differ from individual to individual. After a couple of sessions, you will learn how to listen to your body’s wisdom and will know when to come back for another massage.

If you want to work on some specific issues, we will also give personal recommendations and we will make sure to offer a continuity in your sessions and help you with your personal processes.

How can I book a tantric session with The Ocean if I’m not from Oslo?

Our tantric massage sessions are exclusively held in Oslo. At the moment, we don’t offer sessions in any other locations.

Am I allowed to come for a tantric massage at The Ocean if I am under 18?

We would be happy to offer tantric massage to young people that are over 15 years old. If you are between 15 and 18, you will need a written consent from your parents/tutors.

Am I too old to receive a tantric massage at The Ocean?

There’s no such thing as being too old. We absolutely encourage you to visit us. Our current age record is 95, so feel free to explore your energy even at 100.

Do I need to look in a specific way in order to come for a tantric massage?

As we state on our front page also, we welcome all ages and genders. Come as you are, we are looking forward to experiencing the unique human being you are.

Is there anyone else at The Ocean when I come for tantric massage?

Yes, there are people from our team present in the studio, besides you and your therapist and you can feel safe but private when coming for a massage. If you have special needs in order to feel safe, please let us know.

Is the therapist unclothed during the massage?

No, our therapists remain clothed in underwear throughout the entire session.

Is tantric massage legal? Does it equal prostitution?

According to Norwegian law, tantric massage is a legal practice. We understand that some places misuse the term "tantric massage" to sell other kinds of services. At The Ocean, we maintain a professional and respectful environment where boundaries are honored. It is not allowed to touch our therapists inappropriately, nor are any erotic services offered.

Our tantra massages are taking place within a well-defined, structured setting. We discuss clear rules and boundaries before each session to ensure a safe and comfortable experience for everyone. Our focus is on helping you connect with your true self, through mindful touch, guidance, and the presence of our trained therapists.

Is it possible to see pictures of the therapists before I book a tantric massage?

We don’t have pictures with our therapists on the website, as we want to ensure that the massage becomes an experience of who you truly are and not a repetition of the same patterns about personal attraction.

However, all our therapists are between 28 - 45 years old and we chose to collaborate with them for their extensive experience with tantra and tantric massage, their empathy, integrity and work ethics. 
In addition to that, they are very pretty and have a very harmonious appearance and energy

Can I have a tantric massage if I have allergies to oil/perfumes?

We are using only natural, unscented oil and natural cosmetic products in our studio. However, if you have any specific requests, we will be glad to accommodate you.

Do I need to bring something with me?

No, you don’t need to bring anything. We have all of the facilities in our studio: shower, towels, refreshments, massage clothing, oils etc.

If i feel anxious about letting someone, that I don’t know, touch me. What do i do?

It’s normal to fear this exploration into an unknown territory, specially if you’ve never experienced a tantric massage before. We would like to assure you that we are an international European team of professionals. All our therapists are trained and certified and have extensive experience in tantra and tantric massage. We are also very kind, curious and happy to meet new people, just like you

Am I unclothed during the tantric massage?

For the best effect of the treatment, we recommend you to be unclothed.

If you feel uncomfortable, we will respect your wish to leave your clothes on.

What if it hurts during the yoni massage?

A yoni massage is a great opportunity to become more conscious about your body and your energy, to release tension and to free your full pleasure potential. We have the deepest respect and love for your feminine temple in the way we approach the yoni massage.

The movements are gentle and soft, and most of the time, it is not painful. However, it happens that deep tensions and old traumas appear during the massage and if you feel that it hurts, please tell the therapist and together will find out if it is something to be explored or if it is better just to pass on.

It's important to know that during a tantric massage, there's absolutely no pressure to have a yoni massage if you're not ready. You can always change your mind during the session, and it's perfectly okay to say “NO” at any time if you feel uncomfortable.

Can I come for a tantric massage at The Ocean if I am disabled?

Yes, absolutely. We had people in wheelchairs or different types of illness or life situation.
Just let us know about your situation or special needs and we will be happy to make you feel good in our studio.

Do you do outcalls?

We typically don’t offer this service. For safety reasons, and because our studio is specially designed to create a unique atmosphere that's hard to replicate in a hotel setting or other settings.

Questions regarding Sensual arousal

What if my mind is very agitated and full of thoughts during the tantric massage?

It is normal that the mind is drifting away during the massage, or that you start to dissociate.
With time and after the first session, you will notice that it will become easier to relax and train the mind. If you would like to be more present during the massage, then you can return to here and now either by focusing on your breath (without changing it) or by focusing on the sensations in your body.

Am I allowed to touch the therapist during the tantric massage?

A tantra massage at The Ocean is a gift that you offer to yourself and a unique opportunity to experience your own energy and vitality in a state of receiving, rather than giving, and without feeling the pressure to perform. For this reason, it is recommended that you turn your attention inwards, towards what is going on inside yourself, and focus on receiving and being completely present in your experience.

We understand the need for connection, and if it’s coming from a place of respect, from a need for human contact in a moment when you feel vulnerable, if you feel emotionally touched, or if you suddenly feel overwhelmed by your experience, most of the time the therapists will be open to a hug or a gentle touch. Please ask your therapist when you are uncertain about what is allowed.

It is not allowed to touch or grab the therapists in an inappropriate manner or on their private body parts.

What if I have a physical reaction during the tantric massage?

From our experience, a tantric massage can evoke many different responses. Some people might experience a profound state of relaxation, while others feel more energized, alive, and full of vitality. Some may also experience heightened sensations or deep feelings of comfort and enjoyment.

It’s natural for some men to experience a physical reaction during the massage, while others do not. Neither is right nor wrong, so there’s no need to worry about your response. What’s important to understand is that during the massage, we are consciously working on moving the energy and connecting you with your body's natural energy and potential.

Can I experience a climax during the tantric massage?

It is possible to experience a full-body energetic peak during a tantric massage, an ecstatic feeling throughout the whole body, without losing energy through ejaculation. Some people may experience such sensations even without a physical reaction, while others might feel waves of energy and joy multiple times. However, for most men, learning how to achieve these regenerative experiences requires practice and an understanding of how your body and energy work.

The goal of a tantric massage is not to achieve a specific outcome—it is simply a potential byproduct. Our aim is to awaken the heart, strengthen your connection with your body, and help you open up to life. We see these responses as a natural expression of vitality.

As a woman, can I experience intense sensations during the tantric massage? Do I need to hold back?

Tantra encourages women to express their emotions freely and not hold back.
Whether it’s sadness, anger, sorrow, desire, joy, or bliss, all are welcome, as all are forms of energy that we aim to express, accept, and integrate.

Women respond very differently during a tantric massage, and the same woman may experience a variety of reactions and emotions during a single session or between sessions. It’s also possible to move directly from a feeling of sadness to one of deep joy or from a feeling of shame to freedom - if you allow your emotions to unfold naturally without trying to suppress them.

We encourage you to express your feelings and sensations during the tantric massage without shame or guilt. We will do our best to create a safe and supportive space for you.
It is important to understand that there is no specific "goal" in a tantric massage. Whether you experience moments of heightened pleasure or none at all, you are exactly where you need to be, with all the emotions and feelings you experience during the session.

Questions concerning couples

As a couple, can we have the tantric massage in the same room?

We offer couple sessions both in the same room and in separate rooms.
However, our experience has shown that it’s better to have the session in separate rooms in order to fully benefit from your treatment. In separate rooms, you will have the chance to be fully present in your own experience without being disturbed by movement, sound, or your partner’s process.

A true tantric experience is possible when you focus on the sensations in your own body, your energy, mind, emotions, and what the therapist offers you in the form of touch and energy.
If you choose separate rooms, you will have a conversation with your therapists before the session, and afterwards, you will each be invited into separate rooms. After the treatment, you will reunite with your partner and the two therapists and have a beautiful closure and sharing of your tantric experience.

Am I unfaithful to my partner if I come for tantric massage?

Absolutely not. A tantric massage at The Ocean is a wonderful experience of deepening into the feeling of who you truly are as a human being. Our sessions have clear boundaries, and our therapists are very professional and uphold strong work ethics. You will never receive any sexual services or physical acts during any of the massages at The Ocean. Our massages are relaxing, beautiful, and caring, and we have deep respect for your private life.

We are here to offer our knowledge, inspire you, and show you new experiences and insights into your own potential. You will discover that a massage at The Ocean can actually help enrich your relationship and inspire more love and intimacy in your everyday life