A woman’s healing journey through yoni massage and tantric bodywork

Maybe you’ve heard that people store their unresolved traumas, all kinds of negative emotions, stress, fear, and frustration in their bodies. But do you know where we, as women, accumulate them? In the female body, there is a special place that acts both as a map of all our past experiences and as a compass. Stress and pain leave a deep mark here. This place functions like a library, a repository of our past experiences, where all the things we couldn’t process or rejected accumulate. At the same time, this repository cannot be filled indefinitely, as it will overflow. This place is our yoni.

Yoni, so beautifully referred to in Sanskrit as the sacred place, the feminine energy, our quantum portal from which we pull spirits from the spiritual realm into the material world. Our yoni, apart from being a storehouse of our bad experiences, is actually a powerhouse. Life is born here; it’s the nest of our vitality and creativity and, of course, the center of our pleasure. Every time we allow negative emotions to enter and stay there, there is actually less space for nourishment and fulfillment. That’s why it’s so important to take care of our yoni.

How exactly can we make her the powerhouse that she is, instead of a place of stored past pain?

In today’s world, the demand to juggle so many roles, the expectations, unsatisfying intimacy, and stress, means less time to take proper care of her and more blockages.

Where do blockages come from?

They can stem from different sources, like childhood trauma, physical illness, surgeries, abuse, toxins, or even diet. Blockages can be physical, energetic, emotional, or spiritual. All these blockages create patterns and shape your actions and life. Because of them, we tend to repeat the same old toxic scenarios, remaining stuck in a vicious cycle.

How do blockages express themselves?

They can manifest as diseases or physical pain. On an emotional level, they can appear as depression, difficulties in feeling or receiving love, numbness, trust issues, anxiety, overwhelm, and a lack of purpose. Blockages can also affect our love life and pleasure, causing all kinds of dysfunctions such as frigidity, infertility, or sexual hyperactivity.

We already know that tantric massage can help make energy more fluid and free-flowing again, assisting in the elimination of blockages of all kinds. Since female blockages reside mainly in the yoni, yoni massage can potentially transform a woman’s life on many levels. In addition to helping women reconnect with their feminine essence, yoni massage has reputable healing effects and serves as an antidote to various health problems and dysfunctions.

Unfortunately, due to many obscure tantric therapists, this unique and powerful form of healing is often reduced to erotic massage. For a yoni massage to be a truly transformative process, it must be performed by a certified practitioner with deep tantric knowledge and the ability to hold a safe space.

Another key factor is balance in the process. Often, some unprofessional therapists, driven by their egos, pursue sensational expressions like strong emotional or physical release. In contrast, the authentic and healing process occurs in balance and harmony. It’s more of a meditative state, not a convulsion of the body.

However, different forms of catharsis may occur, and anything that comes to the surface is welcomed. When processing trauma in a balanced way, a woman has the mental and emotional space to observe the ongoing process, understand it, and integrate it. This can translate into a form of inner freedom that will reshape her entire life and femininity.

What happens in a tantric yoni massage?

A professional tantric therapist will make recommendations regarding preparation of the body before meeting for a session, for example: avoiding stimulant substances like coffee, alcohol, or energy drinks for at least 24 hours before the session, or avoiding all drugs or toxic substances for at least 7 days before the massage (except for prescribed medication).

Before the session, you will have a 10-15 minutes conversation with the therapist, where you are encouraged to be open and honest about your health history, past experiences, intentions and needs for the session, and any other relevant information. This conversation will also help create a connection between you and the therapist, allowing her to understand you better and create a customized session based on your unique needs.

Expressing clear intentions will help you make the most of your session. Our recommendation is to let go of expectations and trust that everything that unfolds is for your higher good. In tantric massage, the therapist does not fix or heal you because we start from the idea that you’re not broken in the first place. Instead, they guide you, connecting you with your energy and body wisdom. Before receiving the actual yoni massage, the therapist will massage your whole body, relaxing and preparing you physically, mentally, emotionally, and energetically.

The atmosphere and the massage itself should help you feel calm, safe, and relaxed to receive the yoni massage.

To deepen your experience, you will be invited to focus on your breath and the sensations in your body. At any point during the session, you should communicate with the therapist regarding any painful or uncomfortable sensations. You can assess during the massage whether you feel open and ready to receive the yoni healing.

This is a very intimate journey, so you are invited to not be shy and to express your needs and desires. If you have the slightest doubt, give yourself time, as this process cannot be rushed. It could mean that you need more sessions before your body and energy feel ready to receive such deep bodywork. Women who have experienced trauma or abuse might need more time before they can receive a yoni massage.

Yoni massage is a very powerful healing tool, but it’s not the most important element of a tantric massage.

There’s no agenda; it may or may not happen, and that’s totally fine. A tantric massage without a yoni massage is just as deep and healing, and it can bring many benefits. Yoni massage has nothing to do with erotic massage, and all steps performed during this massage aim to release the tensions and blockages stored in the tissue. Yoni massage doesn’t end in an explosive orgasm.

First, the womb, groin, pelvic, and external areas are gently massaged, and energy is directed to these areas. With your consent, the therapist uses one finger to slowly enter the yoni and locate the G-spot, gently massaging, de-stressing, and activating it. Because of blockages, many women experience numbness in this area, so energetic work combined with breathing techniques is crucial.

Then the therapist begins mapping the yoni, skillfully exploring and assessing the vaginal canal. The therapist will search for energetically blocked points and tension in the fascia and tissues of the yoni, gently releasing them. At this point, the therapist will guide and hold space for any emotions or painful memories that arise, helping you process them.

There is also the possibility of experiencing blissful sensations, joy, or full-body activation and pleasure. When performed by an expert tantric therapist with presence and attention, it has the power to rejuvenate the whole body.

It can help heal chronic stress and bladder inflammation.It brings coherence between your body and mind, boosts confidence, and releases stuck vital energy that you can use creatively in your life. It brings happiness, blossoming, and a beautiful glow.This special massage is like a balm that heals a woman from the inside out.